Monday, January 14, 2008

A year Ends, A Year Begins

As the year 2007 wraps up, I reminisce about all that occurred on the last days of December. Our family gathering after Christmas was held here. It seemed the right place to be, collecting all the children, and grandchildren together with the parents, listening to the laugher, the excitement of opening presents, the sharing of food and lives, the connectedness we feel of family. For some it is brief, for others, lingering as the day ends. I love it all.
So my resolve for the New Year is to keep this family of ours connected, and receptive to each others needs, and wants, and mostly, love, laughter, and life.
I spent the last day of the year, helping a new mom bring her baby into this world. Always, such joy! And then, getting a phone call early New Year's day from my son, telling me he became a Daddy for the first time @ 11 pm on N.Y. eve, and welcomed Luci Belle into the world and this family. Tremendous Joy! All is well, and Mama Maja is overwhelming joyful.
With one day to get ready, I took down the Christmas tree, ran to the store to get some groceries, order a plant for a dear friend who's father had died, bought a sweater and hat, and baby Levi set for Luci, packed, and awoke @ 5am the next day to catch a plane to Spokane.
So good to see you, son, as we drove to his apartment, and he filled me in on the details of Maja's labor,and Luci's birth. We spent the night at the apartment, met Milly, the cat, and cuddled baby Luci. What a little doll. Who does she look like? I see Adam, and Maja both, but am partial to Adam's looks in the eyes, and mouth.
She's a nightowl, so not much sleep was had by the parents, and the reason he had no showers, so the next day, after visiting the Pediatrician for a check-up(She weighed 7lbs.1oz, almost back to her birth weight of 7lbs.3ozs.), we headed over to her parents home to live for the rest of my stay. Her family is great, met both brothers, and sis, Robin, Mom, and Dad. They had a guest room for me, and room for the new family, too. It felt awkward, at first, being their guest, but as I talked to Priscilla(Maja's mom) we became very comfortable with each other, and hopefully, will remain friends always. She has such a good heart, and takes in many of her family members,and friends, cooking great meals, and making you feel at home. We shared the baby, and advice, and meals. Putting our heads together, we plotted out our children's lives. We even toured the city, and went to church together.
Alas, time came for me to leave, gathering up my photos, and bags, hugs and kisses all around, and sadly, saying good-bye to all, gosh, it's hard to leave, not seeing the baby again, for a while. Better post new pictures soon!
Spokane is a beautiful city, with ponderosa pines, mountain views, beautiful lakes, hotels, and snowy weather. Maybe I'll see more this summer when the wedding plans are formalized in August.
Since i've been back home, it's been work, work, work. Except, when I went with my hubby to St. Cloud on Friday to see the VA Dr. about his high blood pressure, and dizzy spells. When I told them about his sleep disturbances, the Dr. thinks it could be sleep apnea that's causing his problems. They now have a home testing for it, having him wear a glove, which measures the adrenaline levels, to see how severe it is. If high, he will be fitted for a C-Pap mask. Actually, he was relieved it wasn't his heart causing the inc. BP. Maybe this will help his tiredness, too.

9 comments:

Chris said...

Glad all seems to be o.k. with Dad. Have him call Chuck...he may have some pointers on the C-pap machine. Chuck wears one every night. :)
Glad to hear your trip was great. We have to talk and catch up! Call me when you're not working your fingers to the bone. :)

Julie B said...

glad to hear the trip went well, and that Dad is doing well. I didn't realize he was having problems.

I have been meaning to call and catch up ,hopefully we can do it soon!

Julie B said...

OH I forgot to ask...are they planning a wedding in August?

My Lifesong said...

This is what they said they're aiming for...an August wedding...but no specific date has been decided.

Julie B said...

yikes...thats what I was afraid of. I doubt we'll be able to make it with a newborn...we'll have to see what we can do

Peace is every step said...

Wow, we'll have to think about the spring break train ride a bit..maybe we'll do an August one instead! Then maybe we can hit up Glacier for a hiking trip along the way!!!

Julie B said...

I have been try to plan out in my head just how we can go...like maybe this little one will come early and the wedding happen at the end of August? We'll see!

Julie B said...

Oh and Adam and Maja-if you are reading this...just plan the wedding to what is best for you! We'll figure something out :)

My Lifesong said...

I am guessing you will probably deliver this little one early, Jul. I told them to let me know as soon as possible, so I can get the time off for both of you.